My Same-sex Marriage Essay for My Assignment

yeaaaa so I just finished an essay for my Introduction to American Culture and Literature assignment. I love this subject, it's so interesting, but the lecturer kinda killer so I always nervous in that class -____- tomorrow I should collect it. please pray for me. hope this is satisfied her qualification. she's kinda strict when it comes to an essay assignment. especially the thesis. she always ask the student in my class one by one what our thesis are. god...that so intimidating I must say. so this is my thesis:

"Same-sex marriage are proper and can be acceptable"

actually, I don't know why I choose this topic. Gays marriage. I also don't know why I'm pro gays marriage hahaha. but I really think they worth it to have a freedom to married the one they love, like I said on my essay.

I've done many riset in internet about this topic. then I found that many people are pro about this, so it's like I've been influenced by them and their essay. I should thank them to make me inspired. 

especially to this site: http://www.123helpme.com/search.asp?text=gay+marriage

they have many amazing essay about gays marriage. I have to say that I interested with this topic so much. I hope my essay is great in my lecturer's eyes. at least my thesis.
so this is my essay. don't forget to put me as your credit if you want to copy ;)
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Let Gays Married

            Same-sex marriage are proper and can be acceptable. In the United States, controversy about gay marriage are unsolvable until now. I believe that many people think gays marriage should not be legal because of some reason, especially religious reason. This is a sensitive topic when people have different perspective from one another. United states have not recognize gay marriage as legal, but some of individual states such as California, Connecticut, Columbia, Hawaii, Iowa, New York, Vermont, and Washington are in legal status for gay marriage. How can this happen? Once again, it is because of different perspective of individual. To become a legal-gays-marriage-states, a group of people who want to be recognize and official rights about gay marriage should give a license to the supreme court which take responsibility of this cases. If it is banned by the court, then it still not legal. Whether it is banned or not, it depends on the amandement of those states and also the court decision. However, there is also some states which the license was banned, but present valid ones allowed. This difference of agreement of each states makes an unrest between opponent side and proponent side. While the opponent side are using religious arguments, proponent side are using liberal arguments to make gays marriage legal.

            Gay couples also have rights to married the one they love. With United states as a liberal country, I think it is clear that gays marriage are individual rights. They should be able to be in a relationship or married to whoever they desire to choose. Marriage definition itself is a commitment of love between to people, so I think there is no reason gays marriage cannot be legal. Neo-christian people or whoever against gays marriage with religious or traditional reason behind it just to strict and did not think about the freedom of each people. That people should be realize that gays are also human being who wants to feel how could life be when they can married the one they love. Eventhough there is anti-discrimination laws for gays in United States, gays still should be live in a secret life, they cannot adopt and raise them, and also sometimes they get mentally bullied by people around them. There is a cases in Washington, a teacher who has a nice record get fired when the school know he is a gay. However, even they are treated not very well same as other straight people, gays make many valuable contribution to their communities. For example, they help for the charity event, serving on school boards, pay taxes well, and helping on their neighborhood. Therefore, they are not only married for make their own life better, but for their neighborhood as well.

            There are a case about unmarried gays couple named Lindsey and Beth who live together in the same house. When Beth died because of a accident, Lindsey lost everything that she used to be has when she live with Beth, such as children they raised and the house they used to lived. This problem will not be happen to Lindsey if gays marriage are legal and they have same rights like other straight married couples. If there are a difference between gays and straight like that cases, I think United States are back to the era when there are huge difference between black and white or men and women. With gays are treated same as low citizen, goverment should take a firm step about same-sex marriage rights. Beside cannot born their own children, I think there is no disadvantage of gays marriage. Religious society also should know if that marriage are a sin, those gays are understand and mature enough to deal with that. So I think there is no reason to against same-sex marriage. Let them love.